May my prayer, Torah learning, and tzedakah stand in the merit of _______________ b. ________________ (add the Hebrew name and the Hebrew name of their father).
For the conductor, a song of David. Praiseworthy is he who looks after the poor; on a day of calamity the Lord will rescue him. The Lord will preserve him and keep him alive, and he will be praised in the land, and You will not deliver him into the desire of his enemies. The Lord will support him on his sickbed; when You have transformed his entire restfulness in his illness. I said, "O Lord, be gracious to me; heal my soul because I have sinned against You." My enemies speak evil of me; "When will he die and his name be lost?" And if he comes to see [me], he speaks falsely; his heart gathers iniquity for him; when he goes outside, he talks. All my enemies whisper together about me; concerning me, they think evil. "An evil thing shall be poured into him, and once he lies down, he will no longer rise." Even my ally, in whom I trusted, who eats my bread, developed an ambush for me. But You, O Lord, be gracious to me and raise me up, so that I may repay them. With this I shall know that You desired me, when my enemy does not shout joyfully over me. As for me, because of my innocence You shall support me, and stand me up before You forever. Blessed is the Lord, the God of Israel from all times past and to all times to come. Amen and amen.
2. Mishna Learning (Chapters of the Fathers 1:12)
הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, נָגֵד שְׁמָא, אָבֵד שְׁמֵהּ. וּדְלֹא מוֹסִיף, יָסֵף. וּדְלֹא יָלֵיף, קְטָלָא חַיָּב. וּדְאִשְׁתַּמֵּשׁ בְּתָגָא, חָלֵף:
He [Hillel] used to say: one who makes his name great causes his name to be destroyed; one who does not add [to his knowledge] causes [it] to cease; one who does not study [the Torah] deserves death; one who makes [unworthy] use of the crown [of learning] shall pass away.
Q: Is there an order to the four directives in the mishna?
A: It appears that the mishna is increasing in severity as it progresses—both in negative behavior and its accompanying punishment.
It begins with someone who makes their name great—who seeks out honor. Their name will be destroyed. It then proceeds to someone who doesn’t grow in knowledge. They will lose their knowledge, something more precious than a name. One who doesn’t study Torah, our “Tree of Life,” has detached themselves from life, and is “deserving of death,” an even more serious outcome.
One who doesn’t study Torah, still has the ability to come closer to Torah: they aren’t “dead,” just “deserving” of death. However, someone who misuses the Torah, they “shall pass away.” Why such a dire fate?
When someone uses the Torah for negative purposes, it is much harder for them to come back to Torah and mitzvot. I imagine this referring to a case where someone scorns the Torah or uses the Torah to assert power and control over others. The whole purpose of the Torah is to share good and elevate people. This is the opposite behavior.
Nobody knew this more than Hillel, the author of our mishna. The Torah “crowns” us with many spiritual blessings. The purpose of this is for us to share with others.
Rav Ashlag used to say that the goal of Judaism is to transform our “will to take” into a “will to give.” No easy task! Hillel, nevertheless, encourages us to strive for this level, as he, himself, teaches in the upcoming mishna: “If I am not for myself, who is for me? But if I am for my own self [only], what am I?”
We are in a time when a lot of people need help. Those with means—monetary, medical, spiritual and all other forms—must step up and mobilize these “crowns” for good. All of us have something we can do to help others, even from our “social-distanced“ homes. Let’s try to do so in this time of need. If the outcome of abusing the crown is so dire, the transverse must also be the case for those who use their crown to help others.
3. Tzedakah
Set aside tzedakah in memory and in the merit of your loved one.